"People sometimes make assumptions about what might help ‘cure’ my colitis. One friend suggested aloe vera juice, so I thanked her for her kind intentions and explained that my colitis had a severe impact on me, requiring recent surgery. She had not realised how seriously my health had been affected and it highlighted to me how invisible and often misunderstood my illness was. We moved on with the conversation, and I learned that many suggestions come from care rather than understanding. I think it’s okay to respond factually and change the subject without guilt." 

Deb